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Even if a person is older, more experienced and more educated than you it doesn't mean
that person is competent enough to give you advice. |
When I was
in first grade of school my German teacher told me to forget my native
language, since I wouldn't need it anymore. This is when I first learned that
teachers sometimes say plain b***s***.
I never
took that advice seriously. Later I've learned that being bilingual helps a lot
with learning new languages and that forgetting one's native language leads to
tragic developments in the family. Today I have a master's degree in Russian
literature and am hexalingual, I can read four alphabets and am still eager to
learn. I don't dare imagining what I would have become if I had followed my
teacher's advice.
One more
important thing I've learned in later life is that this lesson applies to many
areas of life, art being one of them: Even if a person is older, more
experienced and more educated than you it doesn't mean that person is competent
enough to give you advice. To decide whether a critic is right or wrong is
up to you and nobody else.
Questioning
Advice
When we try
to become better at our art we naturally look for advice. And if we're lucky
people approach us by themselves and tell us what we do well and what we should
work on. It helps a lot which is why every artistic community encourages its
members to give each other feedback and appreciate other people's critique. What
we're often not encouraged do to is to question the feedback we receive.